Simply announcing, I m attracted to you, are you attracted to me. Put yourself in an environment that discourages things like rape or abduction. When a male partner has genital herpes and the woman has no evidence of infection, you may need to consider.
As they say, the heart wants what it wants. The music and zine writings are strong examples of cultural politics in action, with strong women giving voice to important social issues though an empowered, a female oriented community, many people link the emergence of the third-wave feminism to this time.
So many guys are into partying or games, or are still playing the field, even in their 30s and 40s. Do these things sound a little familiar.